Here is the problem or goal:
I can't seem to find EQIM where is it?
Here is the solution:
We appreciate your interest in EQ:IM, however that program is no longer supported by Sony Online Entertainment. We apologize, but we can not assist you with the use, maintenance, or upkeep of this product.
Source: EQ:IM not supported
So if you're still trying to get it -
EQ:IM Home Page at SOE
DOWNLOAD IT from SOE FTP site