you have to add the command -patchme to the shortcut. However, if you use the launchpad system there is no way to bypass the patcher. This is only for use with the shortcut for eqgame.exe i believe.
Here's an example of a find indicator I did with instructions on how to make two shortcuts, one for patching and one for bypassing the patch.
http://www.eqinterface.com/download....php?s=&id=3205