I've read through the faqs multiple times and quaddruple checked file names, folder names and ensure I downloaded the entire XML file and named it and the the tga file correctly. I used the friends window. Once in the game I type /load time 1. 'time' is definately the name of the folder, which is in the uifiles folder. Despite this when I load it nothing happens, it does its load thing but when I open the friends window via the options window at the top just my friends are there.
Any other ideas what I could be doing wrong? If not, I simply must be just doing something stupid wrong, thanks for your time.