Kailayla

In your EQUI_ChatWindow.xml file, find these lines (They are most likely very near the bottom)

<Style_Titlebar>false</Style_Titlebar>
<Style_Closebox>true</Style_Closebox>
<Style_Minimizebox>true</Style_Minimizebox>

Make sure these are all set to true. Since mine doesn't have a title bar, it wont show the minimize and close buttons. But what it sounds like you want is

<Style_Titlebar>true</Style_Titlebar>
<Style_Closebox>true</Style_Closebox>
<Style_Minimizebox>true</Style_Minimizebox>

Hope this is the answer you were looking for.

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