Some progress
So now it looks like i have the patch/addon file or whatever putting all the menus and stuff where they should be, and a successful skin would get it perfect. The fix: DO NOT USE WIN EQ2. It can be done, but is more than a headache in the end than worth it (as I was told).
I'm assuming the above paragraph because it has the default UI windows in the "right" places. Just the wrong skin now:
Now when I go to Load UI Skin -> AYASoFv5, it doesn't skin it...it stays as the default skin. When I go again to Load Skin, it says just that: default. Any ideas?
If it's not one thing its another, but I am close
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