Tadashya put it best...
the error log that says "cant find XXXXX loading from default" is just letting you know "Couldnt find the item in K-Mart Grabbing it From Target" (to use her example)
and darlok if you use the command /loadskin without the "1" on it /loadskin 1 (or /loadskin true) it will ALWAYS reset your windows..
BUT now that the menu is fixed you can type /loadskin bring up the menu and click "use default" off, and it will keep your windows where they are..
And the bold letters are not directed at anyone.. it was just to get peoples attention..